As much as your dog adores you, there are some things we humans do that might rub them the wrong way.
Just like some pups don’t realize that jumping on strangers is impolite, we sometimes unknowingly do things that annoy our furry friends.
The truth is, dogs have subtle ways of expressing discomfort, we just need to know what to look for. Examples of these are yawning, licking their lips, or panting—but these signs are often misunderstood or overlooked. Be Mindful, Not Perfect. If you recognize any of these habits in your own routine, don’t worry—you’re not alone! Dogs are incredibly forgiving, and making small changes can go a long way toward strengthening your bond. In many cases, they’ll put up with behaviors they don’t love simply because they adore us. But wouldn’t it be great if we could avoid annoying them altogether? Set clear and consistent boundaries.
“Did you ever notice when you blow in a dog’s face he gets mad at you – But when you take him in a car, he sticks his head out the window.”
“Human, Things you Do Annoy Me”
Make sure everyone in your household (and anyone who cares for your dog) is on the same page about rules and training. Always remember, consistency is key to keeping your dog confident and happy! So next time your dog greets you at the door, skip the big bear hug and let them sniff the roses (and the light post) instead. Your pup will thank you! 🐾 Below are top five common ways dog parents unknowingly irritate their pups—and how to avoid them.
As dog owners, we often show affection or interact with our pets in ways that feel natural to us, however its not always to them. While our intentions are loving, certain common habits can actually make dogs uncomfortable, stressed, or even anxious. Below are some quick, frequent habits many of us do with our dogs that most dogs quietly dislike. Of course, there are always “exceptions to the rule.” For example, hugging might be soothing for a particularly cuddly pup, while most dogs prefer space and freedom of movement. Understanding these subtle differences is key to building trust, respect, and a stronger bond with your dog.
Hugging Them
Some dogs absolutely love hugs—they may wag their tails, lean into you, or even hug you back. But for many dogs, hugging isn’t a natural gesture.
In the canine world, wrapping your arms around someone can feel like an attempt to control them. While your pup might tolerate your hugs, especially if they trust you, they might not actually enjoy it—especially if the hugs come from strangers. 
What to Do Instead: Pay attention to your dog’s body language. If they seem stiff, pull away, or avoid eye contact during a hug, give them affection in other ways they prefer, like belly rubs or ear scratches.
Changing Their Routine
Dogs are creatures of habit and thrive on consistency. They look forward to being fed, walked, and played with at the same times each day. When their routine suddenly changes—like sleeping in on weekends or delaying their dinner—it can cause them unnecessary stress.
While life happens and perfect schedules aren’t always possible, try to stick to a predictable routine as much as you can. This consistency helps your pup feel secure.
Taking Them to Crowded Dog Parks
Even social dogs can feel overwhelmed in a crowded dog park. Think about how stressful navigating a packed street fair might feel—it’s the same for your pup when there are too many dogs in one space.
Rule of Thumb: A good ratio is about one dog per 150 square feet. If the park looks overcrowded, consider going during quieter times or finding an open space where your dog can explore without feeling overwhelmed. 
This next one is one that most humans are guilty of doing –
Being Inconsistent with Rules
Dogs thrive on clear communication, so inconsistent rules can confuse and frustrate them. For example, if you allow your pup to jump on you but scold them for jumping on others, they do not not understand what’s expected.
Instead what you should be doing – Set clear and consistent boundaries. Make sure everyone in your household is on the same page about rules and training.
Rushing Their Walks
For dogs, walks aren’t just about exercise—they’re about exploring the world through their nose. Sniffing helps stimulate their minds, providing them with a mental workout as they investigate new scents. When you rush your dog along, you’re cutting into this important part of their day.
What to Do Instead: Whenever possible, let your pup take the time to stop and sniff. Whether it’s a fire hydrant, tree, or a fence, these moments are enriching for your dog and help them decompress.